How are you in the relationship? The answer to that is not “I’m fine”. Every woman wants to hear the answer to this question from someone else and in detail, right? So we may not like to face it if some unpleasant truths come out, but still, it would be nice if we read it to ourselves behind closed doors and find out. Such a mediocre comment, not an observation; In the light of the information you provided, wouldn’t you like to analyze what kind of person you are in a relationship? Ssshhh between us.
- When is a problem considered solved for you?
a. When your right is accepted
b. When you can say “you’re right” if you find it wrong
c. Once the root of the problem is understood, not who is ‘right’
- What is your most frequent breakup phrase?
a. I deserve better than you
b. you deserve better
c. We wear each other down for nothing
- What do you do when you are angry/arguing/fighting?
a. I swallow everything inside me and relax
b. I take it from the bottom and let it settle
c. I walk away to calm down and then I come back to talk
- What is the frequency of harsh/insulting words that come out of your mouth unintentionally?
a. Each time
b. Very rare
c. Never
- Are you affected when someone you don’t like says “I love you”, you feel close to him, do you want his attention?
a. Yeah, it makes me feel good, I’ll give it a try
b. If it’s a good candidate I can consider it.
c. If I don’t feel anything, I won’t be affected by this sentence.
- What are your thoughts on betrayal?
a. It may be a momentary mistake, but even if I forgive, I will bring it through your nose
b. If I like it I can ignore it or just leave it to time
c. I leave because I do not believe that a loved one will betray
- When you’re with someone, do you ever think about another man, even if there’s no physical intimacy?
a. all the time
b. Sometimes but I throw this idea out of my mind
c. No, I focus when I love
- How would you summarize your expectation in bed?
a. I want it to make me happy like crazy
b. I will do my best to be satisfied
c. It’s important that we feel each other and orgasm together
- Will you surprise him?
a. Men should surprise women
b. I do it every chance I get, I love to surprise him
c. It is a way we choose to make each other happy.
- How successful do you find yourself in sex?
a. I got everything a woman should have
b. What I learned I learned from him and I’m doing well
c. I’m fine and it’s also about his attitude towards me, his sensitivity in sex.
- How often do you lie to your girlfriend/wife?
a. I say it often because I have to
b. I just tell little pink lies
c. I don’t lie, I say whatever
- Are you a jealous woman?
a. I’m jealous and won’t let my word go
b. Sometimes I’m jealous and I want to be jealous
c. The lover is jealous, but I do not strangle and restrain
- How do you treat a woman you realize is interested in your lover/wife?
a. I regret being born. What is mine is mine.
b. I’m heartbroken, but I don’t show that I understand, I embrace the person next to me
c. I am concerned with the behavior of my partner, not the woman. She is the one responsible for me.
- How do you feel towards your lover/wife after sex?
a. I can sleep comfortably
b. It wasn’t bad, thank goodness
c. I want to hug and sleep now
- Do you endure economic difficulties, give up on living standards, support your lover/wife?
a. I’ll be supportive, but I don’t want to crawl anywhere.
b. I’m supportive, but I’m also very depressed and our relationship may not be what it used to be.
c. We would breastfeed together and he would support me, I know that.
- Would you change your dressing style, habits and circle of friends if your lover/wife wants it?
a. No way! He cannot interfere with me. But I interfere. He can’t talk to people I don’t want.
b. I agree, but I don’t fully implement it either. I’m more comfortable when he’s not there, I like him too
c. There may be things I’ll sacrifice and compromise on, but it’s not healthy to change completely. I don’t expect it either.
Let’s get to the results, now you count the options a, b and c, and if;
If you chose mostly A:
You are upright in a relationship, selfish at times, and often a high electric person. You feed on tension, you like the taste of post-fight reconciliation. A calm, monotonous and trouble-free relationship can bore you after a while. But you can also end your troubled relationship quickly. You’re not exactly the type of person to be pointed at in terms of altruism. While you try not to forget your own importance, you ignore the importance of the other person. The most important thing for you in a relationship is to be happy, to be made to feel good. It happens that you are defeated by your ego, and even though you regret it, you like to apologize and take a step. You care about sex because your primal self is a strong part of you that you’re not trying to tame. When you love, you love passionately, but you also want to be loved passionately. When you don’t see the passion and commitment you seek, you become irritable. But despite all this, you can easily lower the sails into the water. Because you actually want to be together, you expect a little effort. You like to provoke to be jealous and thus keep the man in your hands. Yes, not every man can carry you, not every relationship will work. But for men who love women like you, you are the incomparable Indian fabric.
If you chose mostly B:
You don’t like tension, resentment, quarrel, and you always seek to find the middle ground, even if you’re right. Most of the time, this causes you to compromise yourself and even if you go to bed hugging, it causes hidden feelings in you. Since your savings are large, your explosions will be surprisingly large if they happen one day. You always prioritize the happiness of the other person and what they want, and you say “if he is happy, I am happy”. You are thoughtful, but not towards yourself. You don’t like to tell your expectations and warn you about things you don’t like. You are content with what he can think of, you try not to dwell on what he cannot think of. You are not passionate but loving and loyal. You believe in second chances, but you live to not have to ask for it for yourself. You focus too much on your partner’s satisfaction in bed, and you interpret this as a way to retain them. You think that men are attracted to women who are domineering, loyal, easygoing, altruistic, but you also find that they are interested in more wild, vicious and sexy women, which is one of the things that makes you think the most. In bad marriages that you see in your family and around you, you mostly attribute the fault to the behavior of the woman, and this is one of the things that makes you think the most. In the bad marriages you see in your family, you mostly attribute the fault to the behavior of the woman. Either you grew up under the influence of a patriarchal understanding and you want to maintain it, or you found your mother too dominant and you are trying to be like her. You are the type of woman that men would be happy with but never fully appreciate.
If you chose mostly C:
It is not difficult for you to be a woman who does not forget herself while loving someone. Besides, you’re getting married pretty well. You have no difficulty in expressing yourself and you know how to listen to the other person. Being a hundred eyes is one of your main fears. That’s why you don’t magnify the crises and you choose to leave everything as it is. You are an honest but emotional partner. As long as you are sure that you love and are loved, you are not affected by the external environment, you pass the events through the logic filter and make decisions over time. Impulsive behavior is not for you. You are not one of those who suffocate a man in a relationship, but you still have small and effective touches to make him feel that he belongs to you. Since you don’t make a whim, your partner chooses to make you happy with the thought that you deserve it. You neither take by force nor give by force. You pay attention to family relations, friendship and the protection of individual life, but this does not leave your bilateral relationship incomplete. Because you’re good at being romantic too. Not everyone knows this just because you don’t exaggerate anything. You see your bedroom as a place where you both should be happy and you claim your own sexuality. Loyalty is important to you, but in case of infidelity, you either sit down and say goodbye or take your luggage without saying a word to leave before it gets ugly. You are not one to give up your rights. Sexually, it’s a surprise because you bring both logic and emotion into your bedroom. You are a woman a man would have no trouble feeling belonging to but at the same time trying not to lose.
