Time changes our feelings. We often run into the unknown with bare feet. We did not show for ourselves what we showed to make others happy. We damaged our hopes so that humanity would not die. So what do you do when you feel tired? How do you heal your pain?
Traveling, maybe getting to know someone new… No matter what you turn to, never suppress your feelings, don’t tire your feelings. Please do not try to fill the place of the people you have removed from your life immediately. Let yourself cry if you’re going to cry, your suppressed emotions will make you numb after a while. You cannot love someone else, it will be difficult for you to be happy. Strive to be a good person, but people who don’t deserve your kindness and upset you over and over, cut your hope for tomorrow like a knife. That’s when you fall into a void.
It is necessary to present good feelings to beautiful people, in order not to be callous in the future. Get to know people slowly, you can’t get to know them by asking questions because nobody says, ‘My yogurt is sour.’ You discover. Only in time can you learn his point of view on events.
Don’t waste your time obsessing over people you believe are wearing you out. As you read this article, it may be night or day. So can you bring back yesterday, night or day? You can’t even bring back seconds, so don’t tire yourself.
The people you believe will change, love you and endure only change you. Make a decision for yourself today, but this time be a solid decision. You may not have repeated the mistake you said “never again”. That was one of my biggest mistakes too. I wore myself out in hopes of fixing an end that I knew would not change. I lost not only time, but also my feelings over time.
Make a decision and remove the people who wear you out from your life. You can’t live without it, you can’t sleep, you won’t be able to do everything you say you can’t do without it. Maybe there will be an ache inside you, but remember, wherever you turn from the pain, it is peace.
Don’t waste your time by saying “I’m very tired, I put a lot of effort”. No matter how much time passes, if there is no progress, the only thing that moves forward is your time.
If it seems like it will end eventually, let it be over, so no more memories pile up. Memories make it harder to stay away from it. If it comes when you get away from it, if you are the one who was hurt afterwards, don’t let it come again, don’t bother. It’s not enough to say I love you, you have to show it.
Suffering deliberately will bring you down, don’t do it to yourself. See that you are valuable. Try to stay away from people, be sure to deal with things. If you prove to yourself that you are important, everyone will believe it anyway.
Maybe we love pain, but if we knew the color of happiness, we would love it too.
Then it’s time to be happy!
Have a meal
feed the birds, fish,
listen to music.
But don’t waste your time on people who don’t know your worth anymore. Let your wound bleed. One way or another, it will scavenge anyway. Do not bleed anymore after your wound has crusted over. Don’t let those worthless people upset you again.
Let this novel be left unfinished, after all, the end is clear. No need to read. Open other malalas, but wait for the words in your mind to settle before opening them.
Remember, you have a good heart that can make happy even someone who makes you unhappy. You are the source of happiness, so make yourself happy a little bit. Don’t you think you deserve to be happy anymore?
Maybe regret will surround you for a while. You will fight the ‘I wonder’s, which is quite normal anyway. But what has changed as a result of the mistakes and forgiveness you have repeatedly made? While it was easy for you to forget at the beginning of the road, it got harder and harder. But you are strong. Don’t expect the person you left to come back to you. ‘He can’t find someone like me, will he regret it? Don’t ask yourself, “Is he upset?” These are just questions asked for your own ego. If it wears you out all the time, don’t let it come.
And even if he regrets it, what will happen, it will confuse you many times.
Remember, we don’t see some people’s regrets. Because when we are happy, they regret. There is such a beautiful order. When you’re happy, regretting not wanting him anymore will only make him suffer.
Maybe we just love solitude.
No resentment.
no expectations,
To be alone is to be happy.
When a person is alone, he prepares himself for happiness.
