Don’t believe their sweet smiles, good family child faces. If you want to learn more about these tactics, watch “The Naked Man”, the legendary episode of How I Met Your Mother.
Most Popular apps
Tinder: There is probably no one among us who meeting has not heard of this application, but let me explain it briefly. Profiles of smartphone owners of the opposite sex, who are at a distance from our location, appear before us. Of course, you go to them too. If both parties send likes to each other, you can start messaging.
Happn: The cafes you go to, the restaurants and the roads you pass are all recorded on Happn. (only as a general address) and the profiles of people who go to the same places as you are determined and you can see them. In order to start a conversation again, you need to mutually like each other.
Couplinked: The claim of this application is a little different. For those who say that low-profiles always use matchmaking applications, it stands out as a brand new application that educated people are members of. To become a member here, you need to indicate your higher education on facebook. Again, you can only sign up via facebook and nothing is shared with your friends.
Badoo: With 316 million members, Badoo is one of the most popular applications and can be said to work with the location system in general. There is also a game called “Encounters”. He tries to bring people with common interests together by getting both sides to play games.
Social Match: Another application that provides matches via Facebook is Social Match. But one feature of this is that it only progresses through your Facebook List. You see profiles that state their relationship status as “unrelated” among your friends on Facebook.
LinkedUp: This application, which is based on Linkedin, allows you to talk to the other person after calls made with certain criteria and mutual appreciation. If you are a reference to all five of your friends for the program, industry and school options that we could not identify as criteria before are opened. It can be said that the program is somewhat selective in this sense.
Skout: In this application, which also works on a location-based basis, you can pair and talk to someone by shaking your phone. The difference of the program from the others is that it does not reveal the gender of the other person for about 30 seconds.
Be careful!
- Accept that Online Relationships are normal.
- Make sure your profile reflects you. It’s not a good idea to use your old photos.
- Be honest about your hobbies and interests.
- Don’t be afraid to make the first move.
- Don’t let your bad dating experiences affect you.
- Do not tell your life story while writing. Let’s have something to talk about later.
- Don’t seem too eager to meet up.
- Do not immediately give information such as your home address that you would not give to anyone you see on the street.
- You determine the meeting place and meet at a place you have been to before.
- Inform a close friend of the situation before meeting.
- Don’t get into expectations.
- Don’t say you’ve never met someone you’ve met online before. It’s already out of fashion. Be proud that you are active in the search for love.
People who met online tell
“I have been using these apps for a long time. Especially Tinder and Happn. In these years when I dedicate myself to work, I can’t socialize a lot and have love at first sight unfortunately. That’s why, thanks to these applications, I can at least flirt and have a good time. I haven’t found the love of my life yet, meeting but I’m not giving up trying. Disappointment? Yes, I’ve had it too much. The number of people meeting who pretend to be someone they are not is too high to be underestimated on the internet.
Alexandra, Human Resources Specialist, Age 26
“There is something I want to draw your attention to; There are as many photo editing apps as matchmaking apps. People even add hair to their profile photos now. Believe me! Don’t believe anyone until you see their real social media accounts. When you go to a meeting, don’t give meaning to anyone. Don’t make phone calls too long. Meet, try, make up your mind and move on. Or run away.”
Danielle, Architect, Age 29
“I’m going to tell you about an amazing speed dating. Meeting over the internet, phone calls were made. The date came, the man was late. When she finally got to the table, two minutes later, an urgent text came on my work phone. I said I needed immediate attention and had to text for a few minutes. The man suddenly got up angrily and said, “I guess you’re busy,” and left the table. He wasn’t my type anyway!”
Sachs, Analyst, Age 27
“After a few meetings and dinners with a man I meeting online, the dose of flirting increased, of course. We were having a great time and having fun. We went to her after dinner one evening. After the foreplay, the man suddenly stood up and got dressed. He said that he wanted me to forgive him, that he was actually gay, that he had never been intimate with any woman, and that he met with me because he wanted to make sure he was gay. He had a great time with me and had a lot of fun, but only as friends!”
Emily, Photographer, Age 27
”I only use these applications when I go abroad. I honestly don’t believe it works properly in Turkey. Moreover, in this way, my guides are people who really know the city and have a fun time. I recommend it.”
Miranda, PR Specialist, Age 32
