We try to eat organic and healthy, we try to replace the mistakes we have learned with the right ones, but the question is: How organic do we live? But are our relationships organic? Is it possible to have a healthy, simple and natural relationship? Of course it will!
Tired of hearing the word organic? Yes, we are aware that even words lose their meaning after a while in today’s world where everything is consumed rapidly, but there is also a fact that we cannot deny, that we need only organic relationships. Do you remember when you started a relationship that was unrequited, pure, free from greed and prejudices, as in childhood or early youth? You are trying to eat organic and turn to nature, it’s good, but is your relationship with the world natural? Maybe it’s time to question that.
Error forcing relationships
Error forcing Relationships requires certain processes to earn the certificate. This is the case only in male-female relations, in business life, in friendships. Forcing the people involved and being caught by unrealistic expectations pollutes this process. If you allow social pressures and the status quo to decompose your love and relationships, you may end up losing. Do not reject the natural for a positive, open to development, organic relationship, let your relationship flow in its natural flow. Even in the simplest relationship established between two people, there will be unhappiness, misunderstandings, fights, but do not try to manage your relations with the words of others, especially third parties. Sometimes it’s best to listen to your heart.
We take off our masks
So, is it easy to establish a relationship by putting aside our prejudices? Of course not, but maybe we can do this. By trying to control the other person less, we can create a comfortable environment for both ourselves and the other person. With a comfortable environment, it makes people feel more peaceful, and in this case, they can express themselves more accurately and feel more peaceful. The way to establish an organic relationship is to remove the social masks we wear. A strong foundation is essential for an organic relationship. Organic relationships with the right people allow you to discover new heights in life. If your relationship deteriorates as a result of removing your masks, it can teach you three things: what you can’t tolerate and what you don’t need in your life.
Nature is under threat
We tend to obsessively search for the person we believe to be our missing piece or soul mate, but when we think we have found that person, we are afraid of losing him, this fear causes you to complete love again. We go around in different moods. We get used to living in obsessive, insecure, anxious, prejudiced moods, and we lose the kindness and care necessary for our relationships to last. The issue follows the naturalness of our relations, namely organicity. However, if we fall into the trap of prejudiced concepts, we can have a cleaner, healthier, more organic relationship.
Choose naturalness instead of living as if
Instead of trying to show thoughts or situations that have nothing to do with reality as if they are real, believing in a fantasy world, in short, living as if it were “they”, we should understand the beauty of really feeling, we should feel real worries, anxieties and love for each other so that security bonds can be formed between us. Experts, this organic relationship that we have established with our close environment, or in other words, the shared level of security, security bonds can be formed. Experts say that this organic relationship with our close circle, or in other words, the level of shared security determines the depth of vulnerability. The more open we are, the more sincere we are in our relationships, the greater the pleasure we get from the established relationship.
Getting rid of toxic links
Some behaviors poison our relationship, our love, in short, our lives, and we are probably not even aware of it. Do the people around you motivate or inspire you?
Do they create positive energy for the relationship to flourish? Do you have enough relationships with people who truly make us happy? Are we aware of the fact that the relationships we establish with people who hide their vampirism under the mask of friendship are eating away at our souls? For an organic relationship, you must protect your identity, yourself and what is yours. Remember the purity of your relationship with your friend who loves you just for who you are. This relationship did not develop on a set of calculated moves and scenarios. People who have hidden agendas, passive-aggressive tendencies, and most importantly, try to make a profit on you, pretend that it is for your own good, and force you, maybe a great danger for your relationships. An organic relationship collapses, just as a plant that is not fed withers. One way to build organic relationships is to get rid of these toxic connections.
If we do not fall into the trap of organic concepts, it is possible to have a healthier, more organic relationship.