Mr. Feeley is not alone. Many rulers are deceived by the myth of miracle rendezvous, believing that disagreements, large and small, will vanish through the magic of understanding. Emphatically, I say, when there is disagreement, that’s not how things work in real life. Whenever I am going to present at conferences, I remember this fact. The audience asks, “David, when there is an issue at work, my boss arranges a meeting so that everyone can understand each other better. But, at the end of the meeting, everything goes from bad to worse. What is the reason of this? Why: In…