“Don’t hide your feelings,” psychologists have said for years. That’s why the idea that “To build a solid relationship, you must always express your true feelings,” has become widespread. It’s good to think again. Your true feelings may offend or provoke the other person. I experienced this myself in my first year at university. As you will soon see, my relations with girls were not socially smooth. For some reason I still don’t know, a very attractive girl named Jennifer, who has been on my mind all semester, has decided to go out with me. Our relationship went very well…